Staring is Rude!! Unless there is a purpose:)
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As I live in the “burg” everyone knows where they “hang out” waiting for a job, which makes me wonder, when you realize a car circling that block in the same 15 minutes 3 times, in slow motion, do you doubt that it is not obvious that you are “looking”?
Lets not argue the points, of it being ok to look or not, or if there is really what to look at there or not, just FYI everyone wants to look, so when you slow down, no one thinks, you just got a phone call, or you looking for an address, you are just simply “looking”.
Rumors have it that some are available.. DUH!!! YUCK!! (Sorry, personal taste).
That’s about Urel’tehs.
Now the issue of walking down the street and seeing someone hemish who is pleasent to the eye (among other things...), is in the same category as above, but when it comes to a Jewish woman, have some dignity and don’t STARE.
But if you do, and the woman is STARING back, what’s the point? Is it just like a “nekumah “ act? You looked at me so I am looking back? Or is it more like, umm this guy is checking me out, lets see if it pays, but then you keep on walking and you know very well that its not going to take you anywhere, so what’s the point?
I guess the question boils down to:
Men, why are you really staring?
Women, why are you staring back?
posted by Moochy @ 10:17 AM
22 Comments:
Eshet:
You got that right, I was talking about those 2 points.
Shy:
Thats my personal opinion, but I know that some look at the menu, cause they cheat on their diet.
BTW Eshet: are you bi? ;) or you need the cleaning? ;)
With that said, I understand when a guy gets a cleaning lady for his office, I understand why he would choose a young and pretty one when he has the choice, but why do woman need looks when they pick someone up for cleaning?
Special: well, Ask a man, "just in case" is a good enough reason.
IMJUST: but are the looking and looking back in a hope for action?
of course no one will respond to a stare, with , Hey! I saw you looking , here's my # :)
(we dont live in that world yet).
Brown: Think a lil deeper, tell me if it changes anything.
Eshet, you are not even sure, how can I be? btw do I know you ? ;)
What about ladies that stare at other ladies up and down like what they are looking at is an alien? I dislike that. Makes me want to ask them if they would like a photo souvenir to take home too...!
it's called eye contact and it doesn't necessarily have to lead anywhere just a bit of harmless flirtation
I never stare! Guys staring at me, especially Chassidishe, totally creap me out! Especially if they reek of "Mikvah water"
Frum: So when a woman looks you up, is that more comfy?
Open: Is it flirtaious ir just eye contact? or a combo?
Shevy: now please explain, why does it matter if they are Chasidish or not?
Human: seriously, dont you enjoy being looked at? dosent it say you'r pretty?
DM: Should of asked to feel them, maybe that would of knocked you out.
In my experience I find that most of the chasidishe guys that stare aren't so 'in your face'. Rather they try to steal glimpses here and there. In that case I do the same and it sometimes turns into a game, up, away, up, away.
I take the subway quite often, and there it's a whole different story. You have these creeps who don't take there eyes of you for that whole half hour ride. In those cases I try to avoid making too much eye contacted because once you stare back they start smiling at you, once you smile back, they wana chat and on and on.
looking is a way of communicating. Heck, it is lehavdil like dogs sniffing (sorry for the crass reference), since a chasiddeshe guy can not chat you up, they look (or stare). it is harmless and all you should do is look back if you are interested in eye candy, or ignore it and enjoy the fact that you are a 'looker'. Comon, everyone wants to be the center of attention. I get look all the time and give looks back. If she is pretty, i just say hi and see where it goes. U never can tell.
Since it's on the same topic, have you played this game?
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Human, I get your point.
Staring is rude!
Hozen, if you look side ways too long it ruins your eye sight, no?
Poor guys ;)
think its true Slik????
Almost: "i just say hi and see where it goes. U never can tell."
So how far can that take you? I am curious, cause you always see these guys from construction sites etc. whistling and groaning.. and I have never yet seen anyone respond positivly, so.. what are the chances?? share please.
The kind of looks I was talking about is not from being easy on the eyes but because you are not exactly the same as they are and so you are "strange". It is very rude!
HBJ, very interesting!
Moochy... yeah, in a way. Because when guys look it is a different thing completely. Girls always check each other out like there is some kind of competition.
Moochy, Did I sound like a whistling, leering construction site worker? I am talking about seeing a pretty girl on the street, in a store, or just hanging out, especially when the two of you are away from home, like in E"Y or on vacation and chatting her up. It only takes 2 seconds to see if she is interested or not. you gotta be cool about it and not stare, but allow them to look at you.
I met a number of girls chassidesh (looking) and not. I think it is all in the attitude. If you are both relaxed about seeing each other, you can have a blast, even if it is for one night only. since you asked.. I'll admit the chances are not high, simply because you are talking about meeting a stranger, but i have had some great successes, and that is what makes the hunt so interesting. but please, don't compare me, and I guess everyone else who does it (vhamayvin yavin) as stam pigs.
Hey Moochy!
I personally can't stand when guys slow down their car to a crawl to look at you... but then don't even let you cross the street!
Slik chick; that is my favourite Jackie Mason line!
at a loss,
so if the stare is the urge, does that mean it works for their ego? like, look she stared back, I must be good looking?
Frum girl: right, they are looking for something thats not so perfect, so they can say something like, "she is attractive , but I have better features ".
Almos, you are talking about looking , as "checking someone out" to see the level of interest as a first step in like a dating process, vs. my post I was refering to woman strolling the streets and and turning the usual glimpse into a nonsense stare.
Kasamba, Of course they can let you cross the street, they neeed you to do that after they are done looking sideways at the other girls first, then they'll get you right in front of the car...
Its very simple - guys stare because they love women! Women stare for 2 reasons if you are good looking we stare back because we like what we see. IF you are ugly we are staring to say get the hell away.
There are many ways of connecting with people. The simplest most basic form is by looking at them...
sometimes a glance...can be quite thrilling even for a moment..
Well, as they teach in the Bais Yaakovs:
Men are either pigs (who, gasp, watch TV) or Kollel Yungerleit who'll never dream of looking at any other woman but his wife.
Keep up the good work pharmacy sig
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